1. Stop thinking that you ‘should’ do something
It’s still January, and if you are struggling with motivation for your new-year resolve it is probably down to the way you are thinking about it.
“The moment we tell ourselves we ‘should’ do something is the moment we summon a desire to avoid doing it,” says Dr Jennifer Wild, a consultant clinical psychologist and associate professor at the University of Oxford, and the author of Be Extraordinary (£13.99, published on January 30 by Robinson). “Psychologists call this the ‘internalised critic’ and believe we are naturally primed to rebel like teenagers when we hear the word ‘should’.”
When you recognise a thought that you ‘should’ avoid that bar of chocolate or ‘should’ go to the gym, replace it…